Every time a couple has opinions, disagreements and disputes, but what if your partner only puts responsibility on you? He is always right, and he often gets angry at you and even humiliates you with inexperienced words. Sometimes you really don’t know why they are so angry, and you don’t know when they will get angry. Why are there people so unreasonable reasons?

What should you do as the other half of such a person? If you blame everything on you, it always refers to what you blame. This is a "responsible personality", but behind the point of responsibility, do you understand why he is like this?

How to form a responsible personality?

1. He was very inferior. In fact, he didn't like himself at all. He felt that his existence was unrelated, which brought him a huge sense of anxiety and shame. And when he couldn't digest the frustration and criticism, he would eventually slam his companion and blame him for all the mistakes in life.

2. He has a strong desire to control himself. He requires you to follow his ideas and do things without any room for discussion. And when you fail to meet his expectations, he will be angry.

3. His life is full of pressure, and regrets chronic pressure can make people feel frustrated and affect a person's mental health. Your companion may be under a lot of pressure and then ejaculates the pressure on you. Maybe he is full of regrets about his life and has no way of changing his current situation. Regardless of whether you have anything to do with his pressure and regret, he will find a reason to blame you and express his heavy mood.

4. He is a self-deprecating person who believes that they will never make mistakes. If your partner is a self-deprecating person, they are unlikely to admit their mistakes because they feel they are not going to do anything wrong. He will want to manipulate you and blame you for everything, even if it is a mistake that has nothing to do with you.

5.He cannot accept changes If your marriage is in a difficult period, you and your partner need to make some changes and adjustments to continue living together. However, your companion will not recognize that you need to change. As mentioned earlier, because he thinks you are the only one who has the problem, but he doesn't.

6. He is not willing to take responsibility for your companion, may be a person who does not take responsibility for his own behavior. So when a problem arises, he will not want to take responsibility with you at all, and will push everything to you.

7. He doesn't love you at all, thinking you are not worthy of him, and even hates you. If your companion always blames you for various reasons, this may mean that he no longer loves you and is not satisfied with you. Their unhappiness will turn into frequent anger because he regards any defect in the marriage as yours. Maybe he had made a good agreement for this marriage, and when he was not as comfortable as before, when he was not satisfied with his situation, he would start to resent you. For example, he may feel dissatisfied with the fact that he has reduced his time to play because of the birth of a child, or because of your work, he must undertake some family.

8. He grew up in an unhealthy environment. During his growth, your partner may live in the environment where his parents point to the other party, so he believes it is normal to point to the other half.

9. When he cannot discipline his children well, his parents will naturally get angry and want to discipline them. However, your companions may be afraid to get angry with their children, so they ejaculate their anger on you. It is easier to make it more important to be responsible for your child’s mistakes than to try to discipline your child.

10. He has a mental illness. Your partner may have certain mental illnesses, even if he himself does not realize it. Such diseases may cause him to always be responsible for others and not realize that he has any problems.

How should you blame your companion for everything?

1. Communicating with him your companion may not have realized that his behavior has had a terrible impact on you. Therefore, sitting with them and explaining your feelings calmly is the first step in solving the problem. Let him understand that it is wrong to blame you, especially when you are not wrong. And when he is willing to make changes, please give you patience and encouragement.

2. Try to understand what the reason is that your partner always refers to you, not considering it to be his problem? You must understand the reasons, which one of them listed above? Once you know the possible reason, you may be more worried. Even if you can't change his behavior, you will know that everything is not your fault, and you are definitely not the kind of person he says is bad.

3. When trying to keep calm and keep your companion loudly at you, you will feel angry and protect yourself. But next time, try to stay calm! Don't react to their behavior. And when all this is beyond your control, then leave him. Continuing this relationship will only cause more pain in your heart.

When you have to always bear the responsibility of the other party, it will cause you to lose confidence, your feelings for him, and even make life painful and make your life extremely desolate. When everything is difficult to recover, don't care about yourself. On the contrary, practice sympathy and love yourself, and establish ways to get rid of this toxic relationship.

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