After two people fell in love, they chose to get married. At the ceremony, they celebrated the newcomer "Food the Love River forever". However, after marriage, people often say that marriage is like a love tomb. For some reason, they want to jump in, and those inside want to escape! In fact, the biggest test of marriage is to fight and fight in the reality of firewood, rice, oil and salt every day after the wedding, and raise and raise the family. The plan always fails to change. In addition to working hard to meet various problems, two people also need a lot of love and tolerance to maintain marriage. Facing the obstacles ahead, you will find that happiness is not difficult, just cross five. The first year after marriage, the new couple's running-in period is different from their lifestyle, especially since they have never lived together before, so some relationships become "trial". Only after they understand each other will the problem gradually develop and improve or adjust together. After marriage, it is no longer a world of two people. It is necessary to face two families. The relationship between members is even more learned. Of course, the mother-in-law is no longer just an "aunt" or a "mother". It is more or less difficult to adapt to each other when treating daughter-in-law and mother.

{} 2. After the wife gets married, most of the newlyweds will be two years after marriage. Therefore, the crisis is in the third year, and both of them have plans to have children. Therefore, they face various unsuitable things for their wife during pregnancy. At this time, husbands can easily become cannon fodder or run errands. Of course, it is most likely to have quarrels or disagreements at this time. But the most difficult thing to do is to stop "sex life". It is not impossible to have sex during pregnancy. As long as the movements are light and soft, you can be very happy.

But usually women do not feel maternal, so they are also very protective, and their body changes have occurred, such as their nipples becoming bigger and black, gestational patterns, and fatness, which will reduce the number of loves for women. It is difficult for husbands to stretch out their "weapons (weapons)" at this time. If a man does not control his position at this time, it is easy to "get around"; for husbands, they are willing to give birth to children for you and have a big belly for ten months, they will definitely love you.

3. Two years after the child got married before the age of 2, I absolutely wanted to "stuck" the child again. I took care of the newborn for a long time and kept crying and wondering what to do. No matter how you coaxed it, it would be useless! The couple spends all their time focusing on the children, and they don’t care about each other anymore. If the husband is unable to help at the right time, it is easy to cause quarrel between the couple. Over time, each other does not want to spend energy to care about each other, and marriage crisis will slowly occur.

Four or seven years

The seventh year after marriage is the biggest link. In the past few years, the couple gave their time to work and children, and their relationship became more and more like a family. If children usually sleep together and get stuck in the "love" times, it is easy to be strangers and get married again. The sparks and passion between them should be overcome first, "outsourced" the children to care for a family or a trusted nanny. The two people go to a small party, relax, or traveling again in the old place, are ways to improve the passion of the two people. The important thing is to communicate more with each other and overcome the marriage crisis together.

5. Menopause in middle age

children are all grown up and do not need to take care of them at any time, but the menopause comes with it, which is a natural phenomenon in women's lives. Women's cycle becomes irregular between 45 and 55 years old, and their temper becomes irritable, and they don't think anything is good. The heart, but on the other hand, sexual matters will not be coordinated. Men may be "unable to the heart" at this time. When the couple has no balance, the crisis will come. It is recommended that the couple retire too. At this time, they can work together to find the focus of their lives, and work together to move or hike together. Learning new things is also a good way to improve them.

The "hindrance" of marriage depends on whether it can be overcome. Marriage is like water, and you know that you are cold and warm.

The husband and wife should face various challenges together. Life is composed of many choices. After choosing, in addition to working hard and taking responsibility, you cannot give up when encountering things. Although long-lasting love makes people like it, if you cannot fall in love to the end, in addition to releasing the animals well, you should not hurt the song and bless each other!