How old is that I can’t have sex? How do stereotypes of old age form

"For women, being old is the most awkward thing"

This is Cynthia. Leach said. Although she is a lesbian, she has not prevented her from accepting the standards of female aesthetics for sexual dominance. Her companion comes to Barbara. McDonald points out that being young women are alienated from older women and fear of becoming like them is the result of social force. "Your power as a young woman depends on the distance you keep from mature women," she wrote, her confession unpleasant and unacceptable.

Economicists have a term called "attractiveness punishment" - used to illustrate that women are more severely rated than men in "looking old".

With beauty and youthfulness, women not only treat their symptoms for the first time, but every time we dye our hair to cover up white hair or the age of our pride, let alone plastic surgery to cover up the aging sign, it will make it impossible to break.

Sushan. Susan Sontag's famous argument, "double standard of aging", defines it as enhancing the value of men, but gradually destroying women's social conditions. "Women have strongly strengthened this social habit with their self-satisfaction, their hardships, and their responsibilities." She wrote: "When protecting themselves as women, they betrayed themselves as adults." Hey, women need to be brave enough to follow Sontag's advice, "let their faces reveal the lives they have lived."

Even men cannot escape. Mick of the Stone Group. Mick Jagger tells musician George. When George Melly's navy was a "smile", Melly replied with excuse: "I haven't heard of such a funny thing."

Women are considered to age faster than men, so they keep their youth in line. I don't mean to criticize, I swear.

But this task with a scheming and high-priced agency strengthens what Sontag calls double standards (not to mention age discrimination, gender discrimination, and patriarchal system), which makes us fight each other and sets us a trap of failure. After reading this, is there any woman who really believe that she is not as good as she used to be - becoming more boring, less happy in bed, less valuable. If so, where does this message come from and what is its purpose? What is the ultimate spring medicine? confidence.

The violation of the law requires a relatively high price. Open any female magazine and a few ads below, "If you are neglecting to take care of yourself, how do you expect to be loved?" Advertising and social media vigorously sell every possible means - Spanx underwear! Personal training! Liposuction surgery! ─ Keep a patternless face, and the sculpture can tighten the body. Reviewer Kalina. Chucano (Carina) Chocano asked, apart from fertility, why do we give the right to "this sad, ridiculous, totally unfair, but uncontroversial, without regard for any evidence to the contrary? We expect women to succumb to unquestionable facts silently and shyly, and expect men to feel uneasy about it, and not to be content with their own way." Chucano, now in her forties, understands how harmful it is to equate youth with value, and to refute why we don't rebel. "Now when I look back on this, I remember how uncomfortable and shy I felt when I was just twenty-nine years old, I can't believe that I once spent a lot of youth on feeling old."

by Ann. When Murder, She Wrote, starring Angela Lansbury leader, was released by Colombian Broadcasting Corporation (CBS), it was the eighth highest-visited TV series because its audience group "has been old" (there is no sufficient audience in the ages of 18 to 49 who were young). Nearly forty years later, Lansbury returned to the London stage for the first time at the age of 88. She said that the transformation was not too difficult, because "I have always played a mature role since I was young because I am not a screen beauty."

The decision to choose this role not only focuses on beauty, but also whether it is not beautiful or old. How often do we hear "she was a beauty since then", as if age and beauty are mutually exclusive?

Navine reminds us of the cool meaning of being so cool that he didn't even look at us when we looked at some attractive man in the room. This transformation is especially painful for women who are engaging in their habits with their beauty and traditional charm. The subject itself may cause problematic reactions. For example, not long ago, a cute young man walked up to me at a dance club and said that I looked like Su Shan. Susan Sarandon. Next, his face suddenly changed and he hurriedly added, "I'm so kind of respect." He didn't mean that I looked like Su Shan. Sarandon, instead, said, "You look old and sexy" - messages so rare in this culture, so clearly contradictory, are compared to a 60-year-old, smart, eye-catching movie star who risked the risk of being insulted. It is hard to blame so many mature women who completely give up the trouble of revealing their bodies and hearts to new people. Refusing to withdraw requires courage and confidence, especially in the fields of sex and entertainment, and it is especially important to leave space for those who have never been noticed.

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People never stopped having sex activities

Sexuality is indeed the territory of young people at one time. But when the old stone age ushered in a longer life, the situation changed. During the 20th century, the history of human life increased significantly, and the situation further changed. Most people can easily give up love just to reproduce the concept of future generations. It's time for us to put the idea of being with us, that is, to think that sex belongs to young people and to carefully examine the narrow vision that contributes to this idea.

Light adults have sexual love, and middle-aged adults have sexual love. Guess what? Women who are sexually active at middle age will continue to have sex, and so will their companions! The number of sexual activities in mature men may also increase as much as possible. American retirees meet to ask about the biggest benefit of a divorced man in his sixties. Twenty-two percent of the answers to "more sex". Only one percent of women with different ages agree with this statement. It will be interesting to analyze the factors behind this difference, including relationship status and cultural expectations, as women do not stop wanting sex after a halt. Their sexual quality will not decline.

Both are myths of age discrimination and gender discrimination. Sex is good for us, and our kung fu has become better.

"How old is you so old that you can't have sex?" is the title of the online discussion of "Huffington Post" I participated in in 2013. This problem itself contains a profound age difference. We won't ask people what age they can't sing or stop eating ice cream, but why do we stop having sex? Of course we don't, but sexual activity does indeed decrease with age. Despite the relationship between anaconda and Kaga, mature Americans are the fastest growing users of the Internet Convention Service. Nowadays, men are getting older, mainly due to more effective treatments for certain diseases, such as excessive impact on men's heart disease and cancer. Drugs from Viagra and Cialis help promote erections. This generation of mature people are more financially favorable than the previous generation. In addition, the Internet makes finding a partner more private and has a higher success rate. Morality is also changing. In the past, the same generation that would have gone through the same generation of Atsuko for the sake of cohabitation, now there are unprecedented numbers of cohabitation, and the twilight is no longer so eye-catching. This situation is reflected in the incidence of sexually transmitted diseases among mature people, such as chlamydia, gonorrhea, and syphilis. People over fifty years old account for 45% of Americans who have confirmed HIV diagnosis, and their number is increasing rapidly.

They are less likely to be aware of their risk of getting HIV, and they are less likely to get early diagnosis. Mature women with different sex are particularly at risk, and they are more susceptible to various venereal diseases due to their thinning walls. If you are a sexually active person, it is best to use a condom, receive a test and ask your partner to do the same thing. If your doctor cannot take care of your sexual health, then remove him. According to a survey conducted by the New England Journal of Medicine, 25% of the visitors at their oldest age (75 to 85 years old), many of them had sexual activities, and many of them had oral sex several times a month.

Even in the nursing home, sexual activity can still be very hot even if sexual expression is not usually encouraged, and expression may be difficult to express. Living institution means giving up the comfort of a home, as well as possible a lot of independence and privacy, but it should not also give up basic human rights. The descendants of this group, that is, the generations who fight later, will definitely not walk into that good night gently. Thank God! From birth to death, no matter where we live or how long we live, human touch is indispensable.

※ This article is excerpted from "Age Discrimination: Why everyone is afraid of old age, and how do we form stereotypes about old age life."

"Age Discrimination: Why Everyone is afraid of old age, how do we form stereotypes about old age life"

Author: Asheton Apkin

Translator: Lin Jinyuan

Publisher: Muma Culture

Publication date: 2021/01/13