In the generation where prices and house prices are rising, and their salary cannot keep up with the growth, many people cannot even survive themselves, let alone have the energy to raise children, which also makes young people afraid to have children. But some people still do not evaluate their economic conditions and believe that they can afford to raise children after they are born, which will allow them to grow up.

A 15-year-old netizen shared her childhood sorrow as a past person, saying that her family was in poverty when she was a child, and her parents could not bear her education and living expenses. The daily meal fee was only 100 yuan, and she could only eat white toast, white rice, side dishes, and cans to live, which made her childhood very painful. He used this to call everyone, "Don't have a baby if you have no money."

{9 The girl said that my father has no money in itself. My mother is the home host, and the economic source at home is the income from my father's job. Because I live with my parents at my grandfather’s house, my family does not have a low-income account and cannot apply for any discount or exemption.

Because of the shortage of family, I didn’t have any money for supplementing and learning from childhood, nor did I buy additional textbooks. The meals are only 100 yuan a day and have three meals. Breakfast is a pack of white toast for five days, lunch is a bowl of white toast and a dish, dinner is a bowl of white toast and a side dish three to 50 yuan, and sometimes add a can of meat. Just like this, from snacks to 15 years old, long-term poor nutrition leads to "look like a thin skull, and never eating it is unhealthy."

The girl said that she also uses the cheapest 10-piece stationery, "What do you want" to live in a life that is even higher than the bottom layer. Seeing that classmates have money to go out for socializing, I have never had friends due to economic problems, so I can't bear to go through graduation trips and foreign teachers. "Every time I see my classmates' life, I am very impressed. Parents have to borrow money and make living expenses on their own, and also pay filial piety."

The girl uses her own growth experience to call on those who want to have children to think clearly. Childbirth is instinct, and childbirth is a responsibility, but if parents do not have the means to bear the living expenses, education expenses and other expenses of their children, please don’t give birth to them and make them suffer like me, and don’t think that children can be nourished. This will only cause children’s mental imbalances, and they have to worry about money every day when they live. "If you don't have the ability to raise your child well and give him a good environment to grow, please do not give birth to it."

Don't have children if you don't have money This post is copied at the level at birth

This post quoted a lot of comments, and netizens commented on comments to express their opinions, "Those who suffer at birth are directly copied at the level. When they grow up, they have to extort and take care of their parents with love", "This is a tragedy for almost every generation of children. Selfish adults give birth to children selfishly, and then they have to give birth to themselves. If they don't have that ability, they really don't have children." "It's too much, I'm asked to nourish my parents before I grow up! I can only go with them I said how you gave me the same level of support, and I can only use the same level to support you, "The price really increased very quickly; 100 pieces 10 years ago were really much more useful, but now you can buy less than a chicken leg for 100 yuan", "How much does it take to help you not miss it after traveling", "My husband's father kept calling me and my husband to have a baby soon, saying that it can be very good to raise, and I really don't want my child to be so frustrated."

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6 points to evaluate whether you are suitable for having children

The cost of living has increased, and after giving birth, it will lead to a significant decline in the quality of life, which will lead to some people who believe that children should not have children, otherwise the child will suffer. Faced with such pressure on life, the following 6 points help you evaluate whether you are ready to welcome a new life:

1. Economic ability: To see whether the economic ability of an individual or family is sufficient to raise children, including the costs of care and education, housing and living expenses, etc.

2. Lifestyle: Check whether the lifestyle of an individual or family is suitable for raising children, including working hours, social life, travel plans, etc.

3. Physical and mental state: To see whether the physical and mental health of an individual or a couple is suitable for pregnancy and raising children.

4. Teaching and Care Concepts: To see whether the teaching concepts of individuals or families meet the needs of children, including how to cultivate their value and social abilities.

5.Life environment: To view whether the living environment of an individual or family is suitable for raising children, including the safety and convenience of the family and community.

6. Future Planning: To view whether the future planning of an individual or family can accommodate children's needs, including career planning, education planning and retirement planning.

The above evaluation method can help individuals or couples to consider more comprehensively whether to have children. In addition to economic, educational and life factors, personal psychological and emotional needs also need to be considered. The final decision should be based on the overall situation of the individual and the couple.